Dont worry..this wont be graphic..
All I can say is my husband is the most considerate man I have ever met. He had a massive ehacahe (i guess it was a mirgrane) last night..he got home from a debriefing (the day ebfore he worked on an ambulance crew that ahd to respond to a 14 year old girl that got hit and killed by a car)... well he got home and I could tell he felt miserable... he then said Im gonna go get some fresh air...which he NEVER does..so I asked..is your stomach upset? and he said yes.. ok..nto much panic.. I said Do you think you are really gonna throw up? And he shook his head yes and headed outside...mind you its 9:00 and pretty much pitch black...he didnt take a flash light...
I did ok for a few minites and then started to worry about him out there..all by himself... of course iw as to panicy to go find him..so I called my mom (she lives less then 2/10 of a mile down the road)..she said I could come in and spend the night if I wanted..I told her I would..but it would be a few because i needed to amke sure john got back inside and was ok..and I needed to pack a bag.
well less then 5 minutes late in comes john...eyes all watery and snuffing... my poor hubby had walked out into the middle of the woods where I will never go to throw up...it brought tears to my eyes that he would do that for me..and he was so upset that he had upset me..saying it was his fault and he felt bad..I assured him he ahd done nothing wrong... it was ME who ahd the problem not him...he is sick..he ahs no contoll over that..its my stupid phobia...
He was ok with me going to moms for the night...even though he said he felt much ebtter he understood that I woudlnt be able to sleep for fear that the tummy troubles would reappear...so...i gave him a big hug and a kiss on the cheek...which is HUGE for me...and headed off to moms.
I called him this morning and hes feeling much ebtter..he wasnt sick again either.
I still feel stupid though.. I KNEW I wouldnt get sick..it was his migrain doing it to him..but I just coudlnt risk hearing him in the night.
I am still in awe that feeling so miserable he woudl trek off..in the dark..into teh woods to do it..so that I would never ehar it..see it..or smell it... that man truely loves me.