bad night

[jazz]

hey everyone, im a bit of a newbie here but i really need to air my sorrows right now because I had the worstnight ever last night!
Well, for starters, I've only seen my best mate twice in 3 weeks of the summer holidays, this doesn't really bother me because it's not as though either of us are making a special effort. Last night we had this leaving party thing for a mate, and so i met up with her before i went in. For the first five minutes i was with her, she practically ignored me and then concentrated on getting herself bladdered. When she had vodka down her neck, she used to me to look after her jacket. I was so upset, because she was with all these guys who were ogling at her, and she knew it. In the process of making herself look like a bimbo, she practically dismissed me all night. I was so fed up of being left with people who i didn't even know, that i walked home on my own in the pitch black, crying so much! I also felt sick and tired, and now i regret not saying goodbye properly.
I've lost my best mate, and i still feel lousy

[Jenneh]

Jazz, i know how u feel. its hard when friendships seem to close down on you because one person changes and friendships get left behind.


but you should talk to your friend, tell her how u felt because of how she treated you, and hopefuly she will apologise and have some reason for doing it! who knows... only she does.


maybe u cud mention that u feel the friendship is falling apart and neither of us are making much of an effort nemore, so we shud agree to do more.. e.t.c


hopefully she wil understand where u r coming from!


Jen xxxx

[jazz]

cheersjen
yeh, recently she's just turned into this horrible, unapproachable person, who is so into herself! I feel even worse now because I'm speaking to the guy who's party it was, and he was lookin for me after id left!
I hate the fact that she AND emet, contributed to the fact that i left early.
Grr, if i thought i stood a chance of her not chewing my head off , then i might speak to her..
Dilema!
thank you for the advice, i will consider it carefully
hugs, em

[Jenneh]

aww im sorry... sounds lke thats a right sticky situation..


maybe u shud just let HER come to YOU...


let HER ask you where u went last night


im sorry it was a bad night hun


Jen xxxx

[jazz]

aw cheers, yeh i think ill let her make the effort for a change. at least im a little brighter about it now