Hi everyone, I'm new here-my name is Kat. Nice to meet you all[img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]





My question is, how do those of you with children deal when they get sick? FOr those of you without children, have you made a conscious decision NOT to have them based on your phobia?


My husband and I have been discussing this a lot recently, and he feels like I'd be one of the people who wouldn't be able to deal with it, even if it was my own children. I'm afraid he's probably right.


It makes me feel horrible, knowing that I will probably never have kids for such a stupid reason. At the same time, I think it'd be better NOT to have any than to have them and feel like I'm a bad parent when they get sick.