As some of you know, my mother had emergency surgery last Friday to have her gall bladder removed. She is still in the hospital, but the doctor said that she is doing VERY WELL considering the condition she was in when she first arrived at the hospital. She was completely dehydrated, plus she has high blood pressure and diabeties. She walked for 10 minutes yesterday, and today they gave her her first solid foods after the surgery, a muffin and some milk and she kept it down fine. The doctor said that she should be home in a couple of days if things continue to go well. She will be getting home healthcare through her regular doctor, as he says she needs someone there to take care of the wound.


I am glad she is doing well, but still very nervous about her coming home. I think I will be able to do some things for her, like bring her a drink or some food, but I KNOW I will not be able to stay near her. I will bring her what she needs, and then run out of the room. My therapist said that is fine, don't make yourself stay near her if the fear is too bad.


Please, wish my mother the best. Thanks a lot, everyone!