my boyfrriend and I are not at all on the same page when it comes to this subject..I just figured out I have this thing called emetophobia today (thank god I know what it is now) He is one of those types that can cut raw chicken on the counter and just wipe it with a damp rag and call it clean. I, on the other hand, whip out the bleach and gloves. When he cooks us dinner zi always feel like I have to supervise him so he doesn't undercook stuff and so he cleans up properly..I think it's driving him nuts. He always tells me I am crazy and to just relax, but he doesn't understand the terrible fear I have ofgetting sick. he won't even wash his hands after we come out of the hospital where we go alot due to a sick family member...that is another thing I can barely do, hospitals...he says to prove to me that he won't get sick and"cure" me of it...He will also make himself v**** if say, he feels ill, or has too much to drink once in a while like it is no big deal! It terrifies me! I tend to stay away from him when he says he's feeling sick. I think it puts a huge damper on our relationship! any advice??


sorry for the long post, it could have been a lot longer I just have so many questions for u all. thank you!