I just found out today that 2 weeks from Sunday my
grandmother who resides in Florida will be coming up to visit us and my
parents will provide a lunch. I mean that is fine but what isnt fine is
that my SIL who I cannot stand will be there and probably be v'ing from
morning sickness and I cannot deal with that. I know she is a drama
queen and all and she is the type that would announce to everyone about
how sick she is. I cant listen to that, whether its played up or not.
My mother had to gently break the news to me knowing how I feel about
my SIL but again she said "if she v's remember she wont be doing it
around you" I just shook my head, more of a motivating factor for me to
write up the speech but I think I am going to need more than 2 weeks to
plan something that will make them all wake up. I mean I am DEFINITELY
going to do this at some point. Especially after the feedback I got
from many of you. Very much appreciated btw Besides I dont
know how much my grandmother will absorb. Even though she has lived in
the US for a while, her English is not good since she is from Estonia.
I dont see her very often anyway. So I dont know what to do. I'm so
scared that this visit is going to be a disaster, all because of my
SIL. I am stuck, there is no way out here What do I do if she v's
around me? I mean even if she is sick in the bathroom I will hear
everything and I can see myself running out of the house... what do I
do here?? Uggh I hate this...



Miriam

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