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    Oh my God, I just completely embarassed myself. I'm not gonna say how but suffice it to say I can never look my my mum in the eye ever again! How am I going to avoid her? We live together! Ugh I wish I could just find a quite hole in the ground to hide in. Please help! How can I minimize the embarassment and how can I avoid her?Edited by: x hannah x

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    Well...what happened??
    .I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again. I just want to feel deep in my own world. But I’m so lonely I don’t even want to be with myself. <3

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    Not telling. [img]smileys/smilies_09.gif[/img]

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    oh no, what happened, please tell! surly its not that bad, or is it!!!! xxxx

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    Well, it is hard to give advice when I do not know what happened. But, if it is too personal, you don't have to tell me.

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    It is ahrd to help if we're not sure whats wrong


    But, even though you are embarrased now, it will pass. I've had situations where I've been embarrased and believe me in a few hours, or when you speak to your mum it wont be as bad.


    I hope that this situation is resolved!

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    I can't tell. Not now when the embarassment is so fresh! I just need to know how to avoid my mother.

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    ok. hmm well first, are there any like times from now till you go to bed where your mum may confront you? Or is she trying to talk to you now?

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    No I am in bed and won't see her till tomorrow. Possibly no tomorrow if I procrastinate getting ready until she goes to work.

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    Hey Honey, I don't know what happened but I do know that what might seem horrible now really doesn't seem so bad as time passes *hugs* if you wanna talk about it more feel free to pm


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    Aww. What could be so bad? Did you crap yourself in front of her?


    She's your mother so don't stay embarassed. She probably doesnt even remember what you did that was so embarassing, and even if she does, she'll still love you always. Being embarassed sucks but hopefully in a day or two you'll be able to chuckle at what was so embarassing.


    I'm not good at giving advice, but I try. LOL. ((hugs))
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    Oh Hannah, bless ya heart. I hope ur feeling slightly less embarressed now. I know it will take some time. I always embarress myself and end up cringe-ing everytime I think about it for a little while after, but gradually it fades and u will be able to (hopefully) laugh at the situation. Whatever it was, im sure it wasnt that bad. Ur mum will understand that u r embarressed and the topic probably wont even arise anymore.


    Good luck hun,


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    I agree with everyone else. Its really hard to give you advice when we don't know what happened. I can tell you that my mom walked in on me and my bf once and well lets say it was hard looking her in the eyes but I had no choice (we weren't doing it but we sure did have that deer caught in the headlights look!!!)


    So don't worry about it, it will pass sooner than you think!

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    I've been really emberassed in front of my mom before, and it always goes back to normal!
    .I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again. I just want to feel deep in my own world. But I’m so lonely I don’t even want to be with myself. <3

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    LOL me too! Im sure its going to pass because it always has with me



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    my mother once found a USED condom by my bed when i was at work. and the guy i'd been with was absolutely gross. this was about 17 years ago (man, do i ever feel old). my old boyfriend's mother once found a really dirty note that i wrote to him - it was very explicit.
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    awww Hannah mate =(


    i hate being humiliated/embarrasssed or whatever...


    but u dont stay that way, for ever... but 2morro morning u might have a differennt perspectiv on it! I.E it happened yestrday, its in the past i cant change that, so im just gnna get on with things, cos im me no one else.


    you see?


    hope ur ok


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    Hey Hannah, haven't heard back from you, hope that everything is better today, let us know, if you want!

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    We should make her feel better and tell her our emberassng stories. lol.


    Elizabeth started it off!


    .I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again. I just want to feel deep in my own world. But I’m so lonely I don’t even want to be with myself. <3

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    I do not really have any big embarrassing moments, so I can't really think of ny of my embarrassment stories.


    Remember- as others have said, embarrassment will pass.


    Now, I cannot really say much more unless you tell us what happened. But you do not have to.


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    Hi Hannah,

    I'm new here, but I just wanted to say, I'm a mum and nothing my
    daughter's can do will ever make me think any less of them. Once
    one of my daughter's got diarrhea in the middle of the night and didn't
    make it to the bathroom and she was older. I just helped
    her clean it up and we went on as if it never happened. Many
    other things have occurred as I have 4 daughters, and I can honestly
    say - NOTHING will ever make me think or feel any less for them.
    Besides, I can think of more embarrassing things I've done in my life
    than any my daughter's ever did. [img]smileys/smilies_10.gif[/img]

    Trust in your mum's love,

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    Aww Hannah, don't feel so bad. Please tell us what's happened and we'll really be able to help you hunn. Maybe if we share our stories then you'll feel more comfortable telling us. Plus its nice to get it off your chest.


    Okay well one time my boyfriend was over at my house studying (yes I swear we were studying ;-)) and my mom was at work. Well if she didn't come home early due to a headache. Just as my bf leans over to kiss me...she bursts into my room. Um, I wasn't even supposed to have a bf. Oh and lets not forget those even more mortifying moments like *the talk* lol.


    See hunn, everyone goes through embarrassing things. If you feel comfortable telling us, please do, we will be able to help you and show you your not alone. Plus it's confession session!

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    I am a walking billboard for embarrassment! Hold on a second let me speak to the wife... Yep I just said something to embarrass myself! Smile sweetie, I even humiliate myself in here sometimes!


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    Ok guys sorry for replying so late but I've been back at school and they're piling work on us already!!! My first impression of year 10 is that it's evil! But anyway, you were all of course right, I'm not as embarrassed as I was but I'm still not telling!!! It wasn't like pooing or any toilet problems, that would be normal! But nooo I had to set the bar for new embarrassments... Anyway maybe I'll tell you if you tell me your stories! Or maybe I'l just read and laugh, and laugh! MWAH HA HA!!!
    Sorry [img]smileys/smilies_09.gif[/img]I don't react well to being stuck in a classroom all day...

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    Haha, I'll tell you mine.


    Here we go. I was very ill with tonsilitis, and I was taken to the doctors by my mom, I was really nervous about going because I absolutely HATE being touched on my neck, it makes me feel really queasy and weak for some weird reason. And I knew the doctor would touch my neck!!


    Anywho, so of course the doctor touched my neck to check out the tonsilitis. I got all woozy, but was okay, then outside of the doctors office, just before leaving the doors, I fainted, face first on the ground. That isn't the worst part.....I ummm lost control of my bladder andsuch. I can imaginewas a stinking mess, I don't remember much of it. I remember being really emberassed and crying, I was really young...about 8 I think, I cried all the way home, but my mom took good care of me, cleaned me up and put me to bed.


    Oh man that made me tear up. LoL.
    .I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again. I just want to feel deep in my own world. But I’m so lonely I don’t even want to be with myself. <3

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    lol Hannah... school sucks eh !


    i dont actually have ne embarrassing stiories!


    =( oooh i want one =|


    pfft. Jess is u read this - can u remember any embarrassing moments iv had? [img]smileys/smilies_05.gif[/img]


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    aww hun I know I am late in my reply to this since somehow I missed it.
    There isn't anything soooo embarracing that it won't pass. Eveyone has done somthing at one time that they wish hadn't happened. Nothing is bad enough to not be able to face yourmom again. I am sure that it is at the back of her mind now and it isn't even anything that she is dwelling on.
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    Ok I was sitting here thinking of something embarrassing and it finally hit me.....When I met my mom's bf for the first time after a few mths they were dating, I farted really loud in front of him, and I wasn't that young!!![img]smileys/smilies_09.gif[/img] Als o when I was in my early teens I again farted really loud of the floor (makes it sound very loud) in front of my bro's friends which were so cute at the time.....If I think of anymore, I'll add them in!


    Now thats embarrassing!

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    Ok, your stories have inspired me! lol andI feel like laughing about it anyways, so here goes: The other night my mum and dad and sisters were all out so I had a bath then came downstairs and listened to some cds with my headphones, so I was having a mad half hour and started dancing around on the furniture in the lounge! (Like you do...) still in my towel then the door suddenly opens and I jumped, (involuntarily) fell on the floor and the towel falls off, and my mum comes in the door and sees me before I can put it back on. Really really embarassing at the time but seems funny now! So now you can mock me!

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    Aww Hannah. That had to be embarassing but you can laugh about it now. Your story brought back memories of a similar expirence between my brother and myself.


    My brotherwas in the shower and someone called him so I called my brother to the phone. He comes out with a towel around him. He goes to grab the phone from me and the towel slid off and I saw everything. His face got all red and he was apologizing like crazy. I just laughed. He was sooooo embarassed. I think he was like 22 when this happened, so yeah, it happened about a yeara go. I still laugh about it to this day.


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