Stressed...

[Galadriel]

Hey all,


Man once again I am feelin pretty stressed. I just get feeling like I have to make these decisions that seem real big, and I get not sure what to do sometimes. I mean Im in college fulltime, and well, you all know Ive been seeing William for some time here. Its been a year. He's thinking seriously of moving up here in an apartment, so he can be near me, and thats very sweet of him. I want him up here too, so course we can see each other more, but this is so hard, cause I know my dad isnt crazy about this, and well, sometimes it gets hard cause he gets pretty angry with me. Its so hard to go against family to do what I feel is best for me. I am 21 after all, and I mean I can pick who I Want to be with. Its just i wish it wasnt so hard. Part of me is afraid that him being up here will just make the stress and stuff Im havin with my family just get too high. I just feel depressed and upset and not sure what to do.

[Jenneh]

blimey galadriel... there is so much going on atm for you isnt there [img]smileys/smilies_06.gif[/img]


as for this situation.. i think you need to do what will make YOU happy.


if celeborn makes you happy, then let him move up there with you. your dad hasnt exactly been a shining star has he? im sure he'll get over it. but i understand why u dont want the tension between you to be any greater.


have you tried talkin to him about it? as in ur dad?


Jen xxxxxxxx

[terified girl]

If you truely want him up there with you, then let him move, if its what YOU really want. Don`t worry about your family, they will come around if they actually do have a problem at the moment, I don`t know your situation really.....I am Italian, 24 and my mom`s like the typical italian mom, I am dating someone who`s 38, we`ve been together for 4 years now, the fisrt 6 months were hard for her but she got over it and now we do things together all the time....


I`m sure it won`t be as bad as you imagine!!!!!


Be brave...[img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]

[Galadriel]

Hey there!


Thank you for the advise! I think we are just gonna go thro with it, and dad can throw a cow, but your right this is what would be best and make me happy, being near him. Thats great terified girl! You sound a lot like me. To me William is the most wonderful person, and I know hes a lot older, but I also know hes the one for me. I can't help his age, and neither can he, but why should I throw away something so good over that? So, whatever it brings down on my head, I guess I'll just go thro with it.

[Jenneh]

you go girl [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]


hope it all turns out ok!


Jen xxxxx