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    Ok, now you guys are going to laugh at me for this. I'm probably going to look back on this and groan later lol but yeah. I'm in year 10 at school (9th grade) and we've just started our GCSE subjects. Our school has this rule that you have to take a technology subject- soI took food, which is basically cooking.

    It was all going ok, until we started doing practicals where we actually cook. Our food rooms at school are laid out in quite an impractical manner. There are basically 3 communal tables, and to the right of these there are units which contain sinks and a cooker.

    This is highly impractical, because we are all concentrated in such a small area. So anyway, it was all going ok, until our teacher told us we had 20 minutes left and we had to start tidying up. My friends and I walked over to our sink, and we did a double take. The sinks were full, and I mean there were literally utensils and equipment stcked up spilling out everywhere. When we cleared up our stuff, we asked hte other people on our table if the rest was theirs. Noone claimed it and we were forced to clean it all up ourselves.

    This continued to happen for weeks, until as we were going out one lesson, the technician said to us: "Just a warning, if you girls do not tidy your things away again, I'm going to report you to the head of food". We told her that it wasn't us leaving stuff out, and that we always washed all of it, despite it not being ours. She softened slightly, and told us that it was just a warning and we should pass it on.

    We aren't entirely sure who keeps leaving their things out (although I think it's a few people). Anyway, the next few lessons we were doing theory, which was alright- no more aggro. But a few of the girls on our table got in trouble with our teacher for misbehaving. One of the girls shouted in our food teacher's face, which was the final straw, and the teacher put her in an after school detention. The teacher told her it was for repeatedly being rude, behaving in a very threatening manner, and also that she didn't put her washing up away ever.

    Today my friends and I got called out of our lessons by our Head of Year. She told us that the girl complained about being picked on by her food teacher to the Head of Year, and also she told her that it was us who never did the washing up(!!)

    Needless to say- our head of year doesn't believe us because the food technician has told her that the girls all put their things away (which is a total LIE). So we're going to be punished for lying and for not putting things away.

    Has anyone got any ideas of what we can do? I feel so powerless, but we didn't do it. It's so annoying that we're being punished when we actually do the complete opposite.


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    Sorry you are being accused of something that you did not do!


    If I were you I would stand your ground. Even if you still end up being punished (unfortunately, innocent people are sometimes given the blame), at least you will know that you didn't give in- and not admitting to doing it also sends a message. If there is really nothing you can do about the situation, I would straight up tell the head of food "I'm sorry that you were given wrong information, or that others feel the need to blame us for something that we didn't do. But I can assure you that we have always cleaned up after ourselves and put away our materials".


    Is it possible when you do more practicals, that you switch tables, or even get one that is in close proximity to where the teacher is? To avoid future situations such as this? Would hate to see you be punished again for something you didn't do!


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    I agree- before the last lesson my friends and I went to our food teacher and said to her would it be possible if they could use another sink for today, and that would give us a chance to see whether they were leaving their stuff out. She said yes, but at that moment the head of food, who had been listening, gave us this massive lecture on maturity.

    We explained we thought we were being mature by making the suggestion, we just needed the assistance of our teacher to make it go ahead. She said to us that we were bing babyish and if we were "in a proper kitchen you would be laughed out for not cleaning up".

    It achieved nothing basically. I just feel so..powerless? And it really gets to me that they see us as these lazy people who are lying.


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    That's ridiculous. You are definitely in a bad position. I agree w/ Ambers advice and you seem to be following it. Unfortunately this kind of stuff happens because some person or group decide to be trouble makers w/o recieving the blame. Hang in there!
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    Thanks for your support It's just a shame we didn't all get brought together so we could discuss it altogether and maybe smooth out any misunderstandings.

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    Ugh this position sucks for you. I hate when that happens, but unfortunately sometimes the best of people get blamed. I would definitely do what amber said. Also, I know this could be a long shot, but could you ask your teacher again to switch sinks (when the head of foods cannot hear) so that you can show her that it is not you? If you think that this will get you in more trouble, do not do it, although it could definitely help you.


    I'm sorry you've been put in that position...


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    Thanks

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    yeah. we have the same problem, like 5 sinks for 20 people, some ALWAYS leave stuff out. i agree w/ amber, i don't know what you could do other than try sucking up and winning the respect of your teach

    hope all is better, and stand your ground!

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    I've had that situation (of false blame or ridiculous punishment)
    happen to me several times. All those times, I either fought the
    detention until I could reason out a justified one or just didn't serve
    the thing. The school has to work with you because I'm sure you're not
    a bad kid. Anyway, my way was pretty extreme, so I can see not wanting
    to go that route.

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    Thanks again

    I often meet my friend on the way to school, and I suggested just now that before school we go find our food teacher and talk to her. She saw it going on, and we told her about the problem weeks ago. It just wouldn't make sense for us to be to blame considering that.

    Wish me luck- hopefully my head of year can be swayed and the head of food doesn't intervene..

 

 

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