Being on your own?

[missimoo]

Hey Guys,


i'm new hear so bare with me!! not sure if i'm putting this in the right place


i just wanted to know if anyone else dosen't like being on there own because of the V* phobia. i can stay on my own for short periods if i know someone is coming back and what time i cannot stay on my own if i feel N* or ill, but when i was at my worse a few years ago i was never on my own for a year always planning what people were doing etc so i could be with my "safe" people...boyfriend, Gran + mum i couldn't be with anyone else apart from these 3 people in case i V*!!


does anyone else have this problem as aprt of there phobia?


Cheers Pen xxx

[dord]

I have to tell you I love your username!! My umbrella cockatoo's name is Missymoo.


I am an emet who wants to be the sole person on the planet when I'm nauseous, so our feelings are completely different. There are lots of posters though who feel more comfortable with people around when they feel sick. I guess we are all different in how this phobia affects us.

[missimoo]

I have to tell you I love your username!! My umbrella cockatoo's name is Missymoo.


I am an emet who wants to be the sole person on the planet when I'm nauseous, so our feelings are completely different. There are lots of posters though who feel more comfortable with people around when they feel sick. I guess we are all different in how this phobia affects us.

i read through a lot of posts before i posted my thread and your right everyone seems to want to be a lone, oh my god that would be the worst thing for me!!! my heart is racing just thinking about it!!


this is a fantastic site, i wish i found it years ago!


my cat is called Missi and i always call her Missi moo moo!!


xx

[violet]

missimoo hunny,listen I know how you feel,I cant be on my own when I feel n* I have to have my gf around to calm me down.


I hope you are doing alright at the moment?


xVx

[missimoo]

i'm doing ok at the minute thanks chick.i'm sooo much better than i used to be, i just take it one day at a time. i always find that my OCD is at lot worse when i start to feel low and then i feel like i'm going to be how i used to be, i try to control it but it's hard!

[violet]

My OCD makes everything worse, its taking its tole on my gf learning all the things that come with it.


Glad to hear that you are doing alright at the moment.


Im just dealing with the annoying time of the month :S meh lol


xVx

[californiagirl]

I like to be alone when I don't feel well. I do like to talk to people on the phone for support though.

[lilyann]

I think it depends on if you are afraid of yourself v*ing, others v*ing, or both. If you are afraid of doing it yourself, it could be scary to be alone. If you are afraid of others doing it, it could be a blessing to be alone because then you don't have to worry about hearing, seeing, being exposed to them!!

[wintergreen22]

I really don't like to be myself at all. well, sometimes I do. but when I moved outta my mom's house at first I was scared and I wanted her to stick around. then next thing you know, I would feel sick and I'd be like, " Okay, hurry up and leave, WOMAN!!!!"





lol. it was weird!

[samara's on tv]

When I feel sick I have to be alone. I remember one time when I was SO N* and I was sitting by the toilet (I was on antibiotics and they were making me feel SO GROSS) anyway my dad came into my bathroom and asked me what I was doing. The only thing I wanted in the world at that point was for him to leave. I can't stand being around people when I'm N* but I guess each person is different.


~Monica

[tcsarah]

I just have to be alone when I v* - I can not stand the thought of anybody seeing or hearing me (hence the most scariest thing for me regarding this phobia is v*ing in public), so when I feel nauseous it is easier on me if I'm alone.

[spilled_milk]

I can't be feeling nauseous in a big crowd, but i don't like being alone either (i'm picky!) I like to be with someone that i know well.


<3 Anya--

[harmonygirl72]

I hate to be alone whenI feel sick! I get so scared! I am weird in that I actually like to go out and do things when I feel sick, because I like the distraction. That's why I hate the lonely nights the most. Luckily, I have found an amazing boyfriend! Let's just hope that lasts!


Mary

[wintergreen22]

I agree with harmony... I would hate to be alone!