Sage, I wrote in the I need Support section under experiences and someone said that maybe you could help me. You can read it, it is under worriedwendy. My husband was just diagnosed with tesicular cancer and probably will need chemo, I have never seen him V* in the ten years we have been married. I am scared to death for me and my three children to see him this sick. I am afraid my kids will become emetophobes from watching him and I will not be able to care for him and freak out and get embarrassed or confronted from his family and others that I am not there for him. help, how should I handle this. wendy