You don't need meat, I have been a vegetarian for years and I get a balancd diet with no real extra effort than when I was a meat eater to be honest. I love fruit but I love chocolate too so I guess thats balance hehe I've not had any health issues since giving up meat and cant imagine eating it again. It's personal choice though, I don't preach to those who do eat meat but I just found I was worrying too much about it and what was in it and it was making me feel so gross. I don't know how it is in the US but here our regulations say that sausges only have to have a low % of good quality meat in and most places use all kinds of nasty pig parts lol
Mostly i eat fruit, veg and pasta. I adore the food I eat, find it easy to maintain my weight and don't miss meat at all.
Be courageous, believe in yourself, and be the best woman you can be. I'm with you all the way.