O/T Letting it out!

[emms]

Hi everyone!


I hope this finds you all doing well!


I am struggling a bit right now and just need to let stuff out. Last night my significant other and I broke up. It's been a long time since I've been through this and I literally feel hollow inside. I know deep down it's for the best and we are not supposed to be together, we've never made sense. I just feel so terrible. My heart is racing and my stomach is nervous and I can't stop thinking about the things he and I said to each other (they were bad, but honest, and the truth often hurts). I don't know what to do next....any suggestions?


Thanks in advance!!


Mara

[tayda]

Give it time and it will pass. I guess for things like this that's all you really have. Breakups are always hard (especially if they're long term), but almost everyone has survived at least one. I'msorry you feel so empty, but try not to forget that you just lost someone that you shared a lot of yourself with. Just don't beat yourself up over it; you've already acknowledged that fact that it was for the best. So go hang out w/ some girlfriends, rents some movies, bust out the popcorn (or sarah lee), and just veg. When time has passed, you'll feel whole again, and meet someone else. At least you didn't go on forever being with the person you weren't meant to be with. That in and of itself should be comforting. I wish the best of luck to you, and rest assure that you will get through this... as hard as it may be at first. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

[emms]

Tayda,


Thanks so much for your kind words. I feel empty because I have just lost a piece of my heart...It's amazing that losing a piece of your heart (whether in romance, death, etc)is just about the only thing that makes you feel this way!


Thanks so much!


Mara

[bexcelica]

it sucks em, but only time will heal. you just gotta keep yourself busy an try to move on.

[hanarky]

don't think just do everything i mean EVERYTHING FOR YOURSELF!
pamper uself and make yourself feel like a lady that deserves someone
better than u've ever had.
i am going through exactly the same thing

[emms]

Hanarky...Let me know if you want to commiserate! I'm there for you!