Nothing in my life goes right!!!

[sillygirl]

We thought we finially had a contract on our house. After trying to sell it for 16 months we thought it was going to happen. The contract was out to the guy for signature and his wife decided she was "too busy." Now I am pregnant and scared we are never going to move. This is the second contract that has fallen through for us. Other than those two people we haven't even had a second showing. I just want to cry! I am so tired of the world working against us. Just when we thought things were going good (see our condo, buy a house, have a baby) we are stuck with a baby and no where to put it. Why can't somehting go right for us for a change?!!

[murphy]

Sillygirl,


How can you say nothing is going right when you just found out the wonderful news? You have been wanting so much to be pregnant. Everything will be fine. You will move when the time is right. I am so envious of you and everyone else right now that has just found out they are preg. I am just waiting right now and keeping my fingers crossed this is the month but I really don't have much hope. Please don't worry about moving and just enjoy your pregnancy. You need to take care of yourself and now your little one. By the way, July has produced some wonderful people. Mainly me!!!!!! July 19. Talk to you soon.

[sillygirl]

You are right, murphy. This house thing as just been so frustrating! We have been listed for so long and I just want to get out of here! We actually do have room for a baby if we have to, but I really want to get out of here so the dogs can have a backyard. It is going to be so hard taking them for walks all the time everytime they need to do their business when I am as big as a house or have to take a little one with me.


I am excited about the baby, although I still don't really believe it. I am also tryin gnot to get my hopes up on that too much either since it is the first for me and I know miscarriages happen a lot for first time moms (my mom had several).


I hope everything goes well for you this month too! It would be so great to add you to the preggo community so we can all help support each other through this! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

[murphy]

Hey Sillygirl,


I just finished reading your posts about m/s, and having lunch with your mom. It is kind of weird b/c I have been having what feel like period cramps but I am not supposed to start for another week. I was going to post and ask everyone if it is possible to have "period" cramps when you are preg. I got that answer reading your post. I have my dr. appt. tomorrow with my gyn. to discuss my difficulty getting preg. I am a little nervous.


I think it is a great idea to get your sister an "auntie" card. I know she will be so excited. Try not to worry about the miscarriage thing. If by some small chance you did try to think of it this way.My doctor told me that usually when a woman miscarries there was a reason, meaning something was wrong with the baby so in a wayit is a blessing. Please don't let this cause more worry. Just enjoy.


Murphy