Staying Positive

[mitch04133]

I have come to the conculsion, that I am going to stay positive about all my health, money, job problems. I am tired of being upest and depressed about things I have no control over, especially my kidney problems. The pain is getting old, and I am ready to face my life like itsa new beginning. Soon, my kidney will be fixed, I will be getting a job soon, and then my money problems will slowly go away. Why worry? Why worry for something I can't control? Sure there will be times when I am scared, or in pain, but in the end I will be fine right? I am ready to look at the postive of all this, I now believe that I am a strong person, that after going through losing my job, having 3 surgeries, a bad breakup, that there is so much more good in my life than bad. I figure, I should feel blessed and happy that I have good friends a wonderful boyfriend (by the way were back together, and we worked things out, and I am truly happier now) and a fantastic family that has helped my emotionally, physically, and finacially. What else do I really need.


I just wanted to let everyone know, that I intend to and intend to remain a happy positive person, and it's a great feeling.


Michele

[jennyleigh1975]

Michele, I think your positive attitude is the way to go!!!! I think you will be amazed at how your attitude will affect your mood, health .......... everything!!!! I am glad you are doing so well!!!!

[trickyvicky]

Hey Michele,great to c this post and how positive u are seeing things...good on u girl....its good to c that,what we were saying about u being a strong person and u can get through anything is what u can c....because when u can c it ,it makes things in life become easier to except....I'm not making much sense now but I'm so pleased for u and i'm glad u sorted things out with your B/f just make sure he doesn't use the excuse of your probs with emet,as a reason every time u have an argument or split!!!! its emotional black mail!!! u are worth so much more then that...


take care and keep the good work going


Vicky x

[jesskali]

Glad to hear things are looking up for you, Michele!

Jess

[Galadriel]

Mitch,


It is very good that you are having a more positive outlook on things. Don't think tho that you have to try and force yourself to be cheerful/happy when you just aren't. You have gone through some really tough things (surgeries and breaking up with your bf, and job situacion) so you have every right to not be in a good mood about it. You have great character to be able to do this. Things will work out for you, and hopefully once these surgeries are through, your kidneys will be functioning well and you won't have to have pain. With your good outlook, I think it could help you recuperate faster. [img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]