Please can u give me some help?

[tomtom]

[img]smileys/smilies_05.gif[/img]Ok so i think i need ur help again, Jen (Jenneh) really isnt doing to good. Shes struggling with everything including the Emetophobia. So can u lot suggest something that i cn do that might help her? i doubt there is but i though id try.[img]smileys/smilies_12.gif[/img]


Thanks


Peter xxx

[bexcelica]

oh no. poor girl. you are such a good boyfriend, by the way. i dont know what to suggest, because i dont really know what is goingon with her. can you tel me more, so maybe i or anyone else on here can help more?

[mommyof3]

I don't really know that much either. I remember I did read your first post here and thought it was so wonderful how you supported her.


My only advice is to do what I would want someone to do for me. Just tell her that you are there for her and that you won't let anything happen to her. Is she having panic attacks? Not eating, right? I just really need reassurance when I'm feeling panicky that the world isn't going to end. Hopefully someone else will post with something else more helpful.

[trickyvicky]

Peter...I must say hat off to u guy,it actually brings tears to my eyes,seeing u so caring and trying to understand this phobia we have.....For one jennah deserves it!!!! and another we are just human beings struggling in life with a day to day fear!!!!As for advise on how to help jennah....I'm sure u are doing everything u can,and i know my mother felt very frustrated trying to make me better,but its only us that can do that.....just be there for her when needed,emotionally and physically....If she needs space give her space.....As far as food goes,well i'm know with jennah ist a complicated situation but if its getting out of hand and u are worried about her health,then u need to contact her outside support as in social worker,or counsellor....I know she talked about losing her original one but got a lady instead....i know they won't talk about her health to u as its private and confidencial but if u are worried ,by alerting them of your concerns might help in the long run,by giving her more support from the outside circle if u know what i mean....someone she can be detached from....i always found that the loved ones around me got the brunt of what i felt,as i loved them so much i was frustrated and needed to expess myself and the only way was scream and shout,as u do LOL!!!!! having someone who i was deatched from just made it easier to open up to.....I hope some of this helping,i guess if u could be a little bit more open about what exactly is difficult then we could help....if u want to PM me then u can....as for jennah just be there for her,give her my love and i really hope she feels better emotional and physically soon!!!!


keep us posted as alot of people on here will be concerned,tell her she is in our prayers


take care vicky x