We all help in the ways that our hearts pull us. It's ok if you can't volunteer by being physically there serving meals orhelping people out... Something that is close to my heart is animals, and I've donated money to Noah's Wish, an organization that rescues animals after a disaster like this. I live way up in North Dakota, so it's not logistically possible for me to go and volunteer, but you have to do what's close to your heart and what is physically possible for you to do, whatever that may be. Don't be hard on yourself for not being able to do certain things. You have sympathy in your soul, and that's what matters.
On the subject of emets having to stay there in the shelters, I thought about that and tried to put myself in that situation, and it's one I can't even wrap my mind around. Can you imagine it? Staying in a place where there are dead bodies, no place to go to the bathroom for days? It's horrendous. Disgusting. It's something that no one should have to experience. And to put emet in the mix... ugh.
In memory of the sweetest german shepherd I ever had the pleasure of knowing. I love you, Duncan. 3/12/02 - 12/19/11