anyone there PLEASE help

[bexcelica]

im having a major panic attack. my boyfriend calls every night when he
gets home from work. itrs 330 am and he hasnt called. i cant stop
crying because i keep thinking he got into an accident. i know he
wouldnt cheat on me and i know he's not with another girl. HES called
me EVERY NIGHT for the last 2 1/2 years. i dont know what to do im
seriously freaking out. i cant sleep. i cant stop crying. i dont kno
what to do

[yenn]

I'm guessing you've tried ringing him right? His cell and his home? Does he have a pager? Have you rang his parents? I know its late but if you explained you were worried something had happened I'm sure they wouldn't mind. If something HAD happened, you'd have been informed by now so try not to worry too much

[lewisr]

My mom has this problem. Whenever she can't reach me on the phone she
gets a panic attack. It makes going to the movies challenging.



What I tell her, and what I would say to you, is that no news is almost
ALWAYS good news. If something, heaven forbid, had gone wrong, odds are
strong that you would have heard by now.



Please let us know how you are doing.

[ontariogirl]

Totally agree with yenn and Lewis. Let us know.

[bexcelica]

yea, i am a dork. he left his cell phone at work. he doesnt have an apt
phone. so thats why i bugged out. he called me as soon as he got to
work this morning. sorry im a big fat dork. lol i guess i really
care about him huh

[lewisr]

he is very fortunate that someone cares enough to panic about his well
being. you are not a dork. you just suffer what what so many of us do.

[tcsarah]

I'm so glad he's ok. I always think the worst when my fiance's late home! Guess we are just worry-warts!

[bexcelica]

haahah yes, we are worry warts thanks guys

[ontariogirl]

I am glad that everything turned out.

[harmonygirl72]

Bex,


So you don't feel alone in your worrying, I'm going to tell you a story about what happened to me last week. My best friend (a guy!) was supposed to come over at 4pm. He didn't show up and he wasn't answering his phone. I completely freaked! He has been depressed, his dad is ill, so I assumed the worst! I was crying like you were and freaking out!! I ended up looking up his gf's # at work and getting her worried, too. She freaked me out because she said that morning he had gone for a walk..in the woods!!! And, she'd been trying to get a hold of him all day! So, we were both freaking! I called the police, and every one of his friends that I knew. Well, I think it was about 6 when he called. He was fine. He had just had a flat tire and had left his phone at home. Hello! Borrow a phone! He's such a....man!! Haha!! Thought you'd like to see that you are not alone in being a worrywart!!


Glad your boyfriend's safe.


Mary