OK..so here's a little history....the girl is my former bosses 20 yera old daughter..the boss still works n my office but isnt my supervisor any more.
Her daughter is..well.. slow...she has the mentality of maybe a 13 or 14 year old in most aspects....she drives...cant hold down a job...but finished high school (as far as I know).
She also lies..and has a lot of problems..but deep down is very kind and just very confused.
Well..as you read..shes now pregant..VERY early stages..and scared to death..the b/f is in the picture but now pressuring for an abortion..as is pretty much everyone around her.
she is scared to death to do that and really doesnt want to for many reasons..one being that she is against it..and the other involving and incident where she was "touched" in bad ways (though I dotn knwo if this is the truth given ehr past histroy of lies)...
She called ehre looking for her mom..and lost it when I told ehr she wasnt here..and I talked to ehr for a while (we went to school together)...shes destraught and doesnt knwow hat to do..everyone is pushing for an abortion but she doesnt know..shes tossing around adoption..but no one will listen to her or take her seriously..
I feel horrible for this girl..she is very slow..and ahrd to deal with a lot..but right now she needs support..and I am very afraid shes not getting it...she is in NH with her father..her mother and I are up in ME...she has asked me not to tell her mom that I know and that we have talked..which is fine..
my problem is this..i dont know what to do for her...i have printed stuff off the planned parenthood web-site about her options..with little checklists and stuff..and am going to mail it to her...I also gave her all of my phone numbers so she coudl call me...even though she usually drives me nuts i cant help but feel the need to help her.
I dont aheva clue what shes going through...but ims ure shes scared to death...and...i know her family and am sure they arent supportive hardly at all..
any advice? Im nto trying to turn this into a debate on abortion or anything..i just wonder what I should do to help her